Often, you guys wonder how I am doing. You see me cheerful and excited, but it isn’t true all of the time. In this email, I want t share the flip side of being a mom, salon owner, and hairstylist.
Being a busy mother and hair extension artist can be overwhelming, and the frustration is difficult to describe.
3 weeks ago, my salon was unexpectedly shut down due to low temperatures, causing a major setback in…everything basically. The aggravating part is it feels like a constant pull between work and home life.
This ultimately creates a never-ending cycle of overwhelm that I’m sure many of you can relate to.
Often times I feel like everyone needs me urgently, right then, leaving very little time for myself.
I try to establish systems and routines to be like those organized moms on tiktok but to be honest it feels like a futile effort. Kids, in their beautifully chaotic nature don’t follow routines and structures very well. They have their own needs that arise at any given moment. Deterring my plans more often than I’d prefer.
I love my clients. They're awesome human beings. I've learned so much from them, and I literally would not be the person I am without them. However, it's still a lot of work, and there are a lot of nuances to navigate. For example, it could be as late as 8 pm when they suddenly reach out, reporting a lost bead and requesting an appointment for the next day. Yet, my schedule is already completely packed for the next two weeks.
Of course, I want to help, but at the same time, I am torn between clients, kids, and myself. And that makes me question my ability to consistently deliver the exceptional level of service that my clients truly deserve.
On top of that, we received a 1-star review from a client that feels like a dagger to the heart. It's a blow to my confidence and professional reputation. I put in so much effort and dedication into my work, striving to meet every client's expectations. To receive such a negative review only amplifies feelings of frustration and inadequacy, making me question if I'm truly capable of balancing my responsibilities as a mum and a hair extension artist.
Overall, the emotions I experience as a busy mom and extension artist range from joy to overwhelm to self-doubt to genuine happiness. On the one hand, I’m grappling with the pressure of everyone’s needs, but on the other hand, I get so much joy from the hard work both as a mom and a hairstylist. Trying to maintain my own sanity and professional growth can be draining at times but I do my best to keep pushing forward.
That's just how it is. You can't have a rainbow without a little rain, right?
The kids will still be kids, the clients will continue to be clients, and my team will still be the team. For that, I am grateful. Despite the challenges, I wouldn’t change a thing.
I wanted to share my feelings to let you know you’re not alone.
I know this isn’t my typical email but I wanted to talk about the flip side. The harder side of life isn’t discussed as much. We all have our struggles and battles in our lives and for me, knowing someone else can relate makes me feel better.
JUST REMEMBER: YOU ARE AN AMAZING HUMAN
I appreciate you all so much! We will see you soon.
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